Hey All,
Make sure you make comments. I FIXED IT!!! The blog was fine, it was user error. (I know that is hard to believe! :)) I accidentally marked for no comments. SORRY. It is fixed now, so comment all you want.
Thursday, November 18, 2010
Depression: It affects us all.
So according to Wikipedia the definition of depression is, "A state of low mood and aversion to activity." I laughed at first when I saw this because it is the definition of half the people I know. I guess that would make sense though because depression is a natural occurrence that everyone faces at some point in their life. For some it may be an ongoing battle while for others it is something that they only work through once or twice in their life. It also ranges in severity. For some people it may be a small feeling of being down or "blue" while for others it may be a deep depression that consumes their life. Since I understand that depression is nothing to be ashamed of and is a part of many people's lives, I am very comfortable sharing with you girls that this is something I battle every year. I know that during the late fall and winter months I often feel depressed. This is a combination of a few things. The change in weather (less sunshine) and the colder time of year affects my mood. I also had a few tragedies happen in my life during this time of year, so it adds to the already existing "winter syndrome." I know what it is like to fight the feelings of depression. Most of the time the years go by and I just feel a little down, but some years have been worse and caused me to have to fight back going into a deeper depression. I also have talked with many of you and you have admitted that you feel depressed. The changes of being a young mom for the first are overwhelming and create the perfect environment for depression to set in. This is nothing to be ashamed of!!!! Please understand that this is common for so many young moms (old moms too), with women hormone levels can really add to depression and mood swings. Especially the hormone changes after having a baby. If you are feeling depressed at times I want you to know you are certainly not alone. Many of us have been there. I am always here to talk if you need it and many other supports are around for you too. Seek someone out to talk to and don't feel embarrassed or ashamed. It takes a stronger person to accept help than to deny the need for it!
Monday, November 15, 2010
Update
Hello Ladies,
I just wanted to encourage you that I have not forgotten about you or the blog page. Several of you are having trouble posting comments and I am trying to do some research to figure out why. I did not mean to leave you or the site without an update for so long, but this technology stuff can be a challenge at times. We also have had trouble with the Internet at school as many of you know from your experiences of not being able to log in. Keep checking, I will be posting a great blog on depression this week. (I promise it will be posted within the next few days!!!) It has great insight on the battle of depression that ALL of us face at times. So keep logging on and trying to make comments. Talk to you again soon.
Mrs. Robinson
P.S. GREAT JOB TO ALL OF YOU THAT WORKED SOOOOOO HARD LAST WEEK ON YOUR CAHSEE TEST!!!! I AM KEEPING MY FINGERS CROSSED FOR YOU ALL THAT IN A FEW MONTHS YOU WILL GET THE RESULTS YOU ARE WAITING FOR!
I just wanted to encourage you that I have not forgotten about you or the blog page. Several of you are having trouble posting comments and I am trying to do some research to figure out why. I did not mean to leave you or the site without an update for so long, but this technology stuff can be a challenge at times. We also have had trouble with the Internet at school as many of you know from your experiences of not being able to log in. Keep checking, I will be posting a great blog on depression this week. (I promise it will be posted within the next few days!!!) It has great insight on the battle of depression that ALL of us face at times. So keep logging on and trying to make comments. Talk to you again soon.
Mrs. Robinson
P.S. GREAT JOB TO ALL OF YOU THAT WORKED SOOOOOO HARD LAST WEEK ON YOUR CAHSEE TEST!!!! I AM KEEPING MY FINGERS CROSSED FOR YOU ALL THAT IN A FEW MONTHS YOU WILL GET THE RESULTS YOU ARE WAITING FOR!
Monday, November 8, 2010
Question of the Day
Happy Monday Ladies,
So, as a mom myself I constantly think about how I want my kids to be in the future. I worry about all of the influences that they have in their life, or even the behaviors I have that I am modeling to them. I often feel bad when I see them mimic some of my behaviors, tones, or words that I know are not the best example for them. We are not perfect as moms and ALL of us do, say, or act out at times in front of our kids in ways that we are ashamed of. We should not beat ourselves up for this, but we should also try our best to be aware of it. So, my question for you is; If you could see into the future and found out that your child was going to be EXACTLY like you, what are the top three things you would change in yourself so that your child did not have those traits? If you are comfortable sharing please feel free to comment, but if you would rather keep your thoughts on this personal that is fine too. All I ask is that you think about the question. I will answer for myself though. I would change the fact that I do not take time to relax and enjoy life (I am always, thinking, running, working, and not having enough fun). I want my kids to relax more than I do and have fun enjoying the life that they have. The second thing I would change is that I would like to be more patient. I want my kids to not feel the need for things to happen fast, like I want them too. The last thing that I would change is that I would like to not be so negative. I am a pessimist naturally and I would want my kids to be optimists and dreamers. I want them to know that nothing is impossible and believe that with all of their hearts. Well, that is it for today, but hopefully I have given you guys something to think about. Good luck to each of you that will be CAHSEE testing tomorrow and Wednesday!
Mrs. Robinson
So, as a mom myself I constantly think about how I want my kids to be in the future. I worry about all of the influences that they have in their life, or even the behaviors I have that I am modeling to them. I often feel bad when I see them mimic some of my behaviors, tones, or words that I know are not the best example for them. We are not perfect as moms and ALL of us do, say, or act out at times in front of our kids in ways that we are ashamed of. We should not beat ourselves up for this, but we should also try our best to be aware of it. So, my question for you is; If you could see into the future and found out that your child was going to be EXACTLY like you, what are the top three things you would change in yourself so that your child did not have those traits? If you are comfortable sharing please feel free to comment, but if you would rather keep your thoughts on this personal that is fine too. All I ask is that you think about the question. I will answer for myself though. I would change the fact that I do not take time to relax and enjoy life (I am always, thinking, running, working, and not having enough fun). I want my kids to relax more than I do and have fun enjoying the life that they have. The second thing I would change is that I would like to be more patient. I want my kids to not feel the need for things to happen fast, like I want them too. The last thing that I would change is that I would like to not be so negative. I am a pessimist naturally and I would want my kids to be optimists and dreamers. I want them to know that nothing is impossible and believe that with all of their hearts. Well, that is it for today, but hopefully I have given you guys something to think about. Good luck to each of you that will be CAHSEE testing tomorrow and Wednesday!
Mrs. Robinson
Friday, November 5, 2010
Happy Friday Ladies
Hello All
Happy Friday!!!! I am so proud of each of you that made it into school this week and are working hard to finish high school. Way to be an example to your child! Have a safe weekend and don't forget that next week is your CAHSEE exam. On Monday I will have the question of the day for you, so keep checking out the blog and tell others to join as well.
Mrs. Robinson
Happy Friday!!!! I am so proud of each of you that made it into school this week and are working hard to finish high school. Way to be an example to your child! Have a safe weekend and don't forget that next week is your CAHSEE exam. On Monday I will have the question of the day for you, so keep checking out the blog and tell others to join as well.
Mrs. Robinson
Thursday, November 4, 2010
Angeline's Story - A Previous Student and H.Y.P.E. Blogger
In Angeline's own words:
"Did you ever feel like your world is going into a down world spiral after having a baby, not enough time to yourself, still having to get over the fact that you have another life to take care of, not having the baby's father around, being a teen mom, having people look down on you, also being stereotyped as a young mom who might not make it. Well I have been through all of that and much more; I was so frustrated and felt alone. I just felt like no one felt how I did, I was only 14 going on 15 when I got pregnant with my son, freshman in high school. I had to drop out of traditional high school and go to an independent study charter school, which is kind of the same but you miss the fact of being around your old friends, having lunch time, prom, homecoming, and football games. Despite missing those things the school ended up being really good for me. At first I got very anti-social after being pregnant and after having my son. I always cried during my pregnancy because I would just always picture my life not being the same after having my child. I sometimes cried when my baby cried because I was a first time mom, young at that and also confused, but after going to the charter school I’ve gotten close with a lot of teachers especially one in particular Mrs. Robinson . She made my spirit boost , made me feel like I do have a chance at getting this mommy thing right and always providing little activities for me to go to , so it could help me open up with other teen moms like me, she wanted me to know that there were many more girls like me. So afterwards I didn’t feel alone, made a lot of good friends, my son also made him some buddies as well :). and after a year and a half of going there I graduated at 16, continued going to school, went to college at 17 and now currently 18 still going to school and the person I was then, I am not now because I can make it in this world just like anyone else. My way of life is totally different , I thought I was going to be a stereotype that everyone always talked about, statistics dropping out , well may I say I’m very happy how my life turned out and I proved them wrong. I’m not a statistic and you should never judge a book by its cover. So, for all the young moms out there in my position or close to it ... never give up and let someone put you down. That should make you stronger so you can prove them all wrong :) .... until my next entry bye!"
"Did you ever feel like your world is going into a down world spiral after having a baby, not enough time to yourself, still having to get over the fact that you have another life to take care of, not having the baby's father around, being a teen mom, having people look down on you, also being stereotyped as a young mom who might not make it. Well I have been through all of that and much more; I was so frustrated and felt alone. I just felt like no one felt how I did, I was only 14 going on 15 when I got pregnant with my son, freshman in high school. I had to drop out of traditional high school and go to an independent study charter school, which is kind of the same but you miss the fact of being around your old friends, having lunch time, prom, homecoming, and football games. Despite missing those things the school ended up being really good for me. At first I got very anti-social after being pregnant and after having my son. I always cried during my pregnancy because I would just always picture my life not being the same after having my child. I sometimes cried when my baby cried because I was a first time mom, young at that and also confused, but after going to the charter school I’ve gotten close with a lot of teachers especially one in particular Mrs. Robinson . She made my spirit boost , made me feel like I do have a chance at getting this mommy thing right and always providing little activities for me to go to , so it could help me open up with other teen moms like me, she wanted me to know that there were many more girls like me. So afterwards I didn’t feel alone, made a lot of good friends, my son also made him some buddies as well :). and after a year and a half of going there I graduated at 16, continued going to school, went to college at 17 and now currently 18 still going to school and the person I was then, I am not now because I can make it in this world just like anyone else. My way of life is totally different , I thought I was going to be a stereotype that everyone always talked about, statistics dropping out , well may I say I’m very happy how my life turned out and I proved them wrong. I’m not a statistic and you should never judge a book by its cover. So, for all the young moms out there in my position or close to it ... never give up and let someone put you down. That should make you stronger so you can prove them all wrong :) .... until my next entry bye!"
Angeline
What is all the HYPE about???
Hello Ladies,
So, HYPE is the NEW and EXCITING Heritage Young Parent Education Blog Page. I am so excited to be starting on this project. I know that many of you are very involved in social networking and I wanted to jump on the bandwagon. I also know that being a mom is busy and difficult and finding time to talk and interact with others sometimes takes being creative and inventive. I will be regularly posting blogs for you and having "guest bloggers." Please always jump in to the conversations and enjoy the site. I will be posting all kinds of things, including REMINDERS FOR SCHOOL and things like CAHSEE testing. Yes, I know, that is no fun, but it is very important for each and everyone of you to be a strong example to your children with school. If they see mom not finish school it will leave a lasting impression on them that you don't want. On the other side of it we will be having some deeper topics too about the difficulties of parenting, relationship abuse, the 411 on cheating and much more. So, become an fan of HYPE blog today and encourage your friends to join too. Keep in mind you need to be a teen parent and you need to be a student or alumni (graduate) to join into the fun. Also ALWAYs ALWAYs make sure that your language and comments are appropriate. I WILL delete anyone that cannot respect that policy. This site is here for all of us to enjoy, so lets keep it that way. With that said, keep your eyes out for the next HYPE post!
Mrs. Robinson
So, HYPE is the NEW and EXCITING Heritage Young Parent Education Blog Page. I am so excited to be starting on this project. I know that many of you are very involved in social networking and I wanted to jump on the bandwagon. I also know that being a mom is busy and difficult and finding time to talk and interact with others sometimes takes being creative and inventive. I will be regularly posting blogs for you and having "guest bloggers." Please always jump in to the conversations and enjoy the site. I will be posting all kinds of things, including REMINDERS FOR SCHOOL and things like CAHSEE testing. Yes, I know, that is no fun, but it is very important for each and everyone of you to be a strong example to your children with school. If they see mom not finish school it will leave a lasting impression on them that you don't want. On the other side of it we will be having some deeper topics too about the difficulties of parenting, relationship abuse, the 411 on cheating and much more. So, become an fan of HYPE blog today and encourage your friends to join too. Keep in mind you need to be a teen parent and you need to be a student or alumni (graduate) to join into the fun. Also ALWAYs ALWAYs make sure that your language and comments are appropriate. I WILL delete anyone that cannot respect that policy. This site is here for all of us to enjoy, so lets keep it that way. With that said, keep your eyes out for the next HYPE post!
Mrs. Robinson
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